No matter how hard you resist, no matter how strong your defenses are…….you feel the protective wall around you crumble. Its happens to the best of us at some point or the other in our relationships. You try hard to maintain your individual lives and strictly enforce maintainence of boundaries but the part where two individual lives meet – the fundamental areas of our lives – they always come undone.
You realise you cant hold it all together. You give in; you give up. For some its an inch-by-inch struggle. Each step is as tentative as the first was. There are others (who it seems have waited for this their entire lives) welcoming the invasion into their lives with a smile.
No matter which category you fall into, you uncover and unwrap yourself for the other person.
Thats the thing about love.